Just My Journal

out of all of the seven deadly sins - greed, gluttony, pride, lust, anger, envy, and sloth - envy i think is by far the worst. its the one that hurts the people around you the most. for example, my roommate is/was dating another guy in the dorm ( its complicated doesn't even begin to describe it). when they are together, the guy in the relationship gets really jealous about her being even remotely close to another guy. first of all, jealousy equates to not trusting the other person. if you don't trust your partner then why are you with them?! also, its not pretty or appealing on anybody. its okay to be mad at your partner if they did something wrong, but if they aren't then stop worrying about them. having a reason is completely different than just speculating going back to my roommate, when they weren't in a relationship, she would get really jealous about the girls her ex would hang with. she would call the other girl ugly and a slut and all kinds of words.

its always hard when you are on a team learning how to work with others, where you belong, how you belong, and what you can do to improve on yourself and thus improve the team but being on a team is critical, or even more so, competition if you are to know anything about me, know that i am a tennis player i don't care what you play or where you play it, but i think every child should play a sport at some point in their lives and how you define "sport" is up to you it could be gymnastics, dance, tennis, basketball, swimming, whatever but be sure it's something where you are told "no" where you taste the sting of defeat why? because if you never experience defeat you can never know how to rise above it. you never know how to improve afterwards. and you would have never learned that part about yourself. i was talking to my coach about how the mens tennis team needed more guys. and i knew of some guys who wanted to play but were very hesitant and i th

its valentines day again for some its an excuse to treat your girl to something nice for others its a day where you are reminded that you have somehow failed in the battle called love - that's kinda harsh i think we need to change this we blame society for all of the negativity about body image or relationships but we always forget - we are society love and relationships are hard enough without the critique of others be happy, if not for yourself today, for everyone who has someone to be happy with i am 18 and, truth be told, i am terrified about the thought of being in a relationship im scared about the possibility of hurt hurting myself and hurting others but theres a catch as well if you are in a relationship and are hurting the other person because you are cheating or doing something selfish... then leave the relationship! staying around because you don't know how to say goodbye or whatever your reason is will cause more pain in the end don't cheat but